Woven throughout impostor syndrome is the most dangerous belief of all: that you must be validated by somebody other than you. It’s an insidious lie.

The truth is you don’t actually need approval from anyone else, period. You can act toward yourself with unconditional love at all times. Every day, you can commit to being the person you want to be. It is your right, and it is within your reach.

You are perfect in every moment. You can change, in any way you want – but only do it if YOU are the one who wants it.

I‘d love to hear from you. Please leave a comment below or email me (Kay at FacilitatorOnFire.net).

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Kay Coughlin, CEO and Chief Facilitator of Facilitator on Fire, has a dream to create a world that is generously inclusive of all adult generations (iGen/Gen Z, Millennials, Gen X-ers, Boomers and Traditionalists).

Facilitator on Fire's "Connecting Across Generations" seminar helps leaders and managers build amazing multi-generational teams. Kay's keynote address, "Top Myths of Leading Generations," helps businesses see the hard costs of miscommunication between generations. "Caregiver Coaching" is for family caregivers who are ready to overcome the emotional grind of caregiving. 

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  1. Justin

    I don’t typically comment on posts, but as a long time reader I thought I’d drop in and wish you all the best during these troubling times.

    From all of us at Royal CBD, I hope you stay well with the COVID19 pandemic progressing at an alarming rate.

    Justin Hamilton
    Royal CBD