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What does a Facilitator on Fire engagement cost?

How much are your roadblocks and unresolved issues costing you – every month, every week, every day? Think of the headaches, lost staff time, frustration of time-wasting – and, of course, the potential loss of business you may not even know about.

We’ve designed the Facilitator On Fire programs and services to eliminate an “hourly rate clock” running. 

Is Facilitator on Fire for teams or for individuals?

For multi-generational teams and their leaders, we offer “Overcoming the Myths: Leading Across Generations” and the “Great Teams on Purpose Leadership Lab.” Your team can become higher-performing, more supportive, and happier, no matter how wide the gap is in the ages of your team members.

For individuals, we provide leadership coaching for those who manage more than two generations in the workplace, and/or are also caregivers at home.

select clients

1157 designconcepts (Sidney, OH)
Community Shares of MidOhio (Columbus, OH)
Deaf Services Center (Westerville, OH)
Gable Consulting (Columbus, OH)
Lipscomb University (Nashville, TN)
Main Street Delaware (Delaware, OH)
Moving Image Consulting (Chicago, IL)
New Life Church (Gahanna, OH)
OCLC (Dublin, OH)
Ohio Library Council (Columbus, OH)
Ohio Wildlife Center (Powell, OH)
Olentangy Education Foundation (Lewis Center, OH)
Rural Chapel United Methodist Church (Galena, OH)
Stetson University (DeLand, FL)
St. Stephens Episcopal Church (Columbus, OH)
The Learning Spectrum (Columbus, OH)
University of Alabama at Birmingham, School of Education (Birmingham, AL)
University of Cincinnati, Development (Cincinnati, OH)

your guide

Kay Coughlin, CEO and Chief Facilitator of Facilitator On Fire, is on a mission to help Millennials, Gen X-ers and Boomers (and iGen/Zs and Traditionalists, too!) work together on teams that are higher-performing and happier.

Kay’s “Overcoming the Myths: Leading Across Generations” and Great Teams on Purpose Leadership Lab helps leaders and managers build amazing multi-generational teams. The skill she teaches in her public speaking, “How to be Heard in a Noisy Business World,” is part of the formula she created to help teams become abundantly successful, together.

Facilitator on Fire is a subsidiary of Donor Relations Mindset LLC, which Kay founded in 2015. Kay lives with her husband and children in central Ohio. Kay can be found on LinkedIn, Twitter, and Instagram.

help make a difference

The “Buy 1, Give 1” business model and social enterprises are making the world a better place every day. We at Facilitator On Fire are committed to doing our part to serve non-profits who typcially can’t commit resources needed to hire premium consulting firms. Each for-profit client engagement helps us provide services to non-profit organizations – on a sliding scale they can afford.

Galena, OH 43021